Tales From Boyland : Worth the Wait!

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Worth the Wait!

Our precious 4th Little Mister is here...and of course, worth every bit of the wait and worth every ounce of effort it took to bring all 10 pounds, 1 ounce of him here! Yep. He is the new record-holder. 10 pounds, 1 ounce. 21 1/2 inches. 15 1/2 inch head and 15 1/2 inch chest. He is like a little sausage...and a very cute one at that. We love him so much and we're so happy. The birth was completely different in so many ways from what we have experienced and from what we expected. Lots of life lessons here...the biggest of which is, "I can do all things through Him who gives me strength."

8 comments:

sacra vim said...: YEAH! Way to go, girl! I can't believe how chubby his cheeks are already! And it's a good thing I made his hat big...really big...sheesh. I love how he fills up those jammies already!; 10:16 PM
Pam said...: HALLELUJAH HE'S HERE!!!!!!!!!!!! Congratulations Jessica! (Tony too:) Can't wait to meet this little one I've been praying for. He looks like a keeper:) I'd love to come over and meet him sometime, but I'll give you some time to rest.; 10:49 PM
mama said...: Yay!!! Welcome home, baby boy! :); 11:09 PM
Marti said...: It's so good to see you both doing so well! Thank you Lord!

What a big, cute, little man! (Because babies can be big and little at the same time.); 5:31 AM
Jodi said...: YAY!!!! Was just wondering about you. Congratulations on that big little guy (taking a cue from my sister), and enjoy your four boys. You are certainly the queen of your family!; 10:19 AM
Unknown said...: beautiful!; 1:10 PM
Liane said...: Yeah! Welcome little one! Looking forward to meeting you! :); 4:47 PM
Unknown said...: SWEET, ADORABLE, KISSABLE, CHUNKY MONKEY BOY!!!! Congrats and way to go you two :) He is sooooo completely precious Jess, I wanna kiss those yummy cheeks. I LOVE baby sons :) I'm so glad you are on this side of the birth and will be praying for a good adjustment period and dare I say..."REST". You are a champ girl! So did your water break at the bowling alley?; 8:56 PM

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We're Officially On Our Way!
Boyland is on the adoption train. We've had some twists and turns (including welcoming precious son #5!) and a whole lot of waiting before the official waiting for this child began...but...our application has been approved with Children's Hope International! We are considering that day, February 21, our official "begin date". We're gonna need a LOT of support and prayer along this journey...so please...hop on the train with us (and maybe, just maybe, even consider jumping on board a train of your own?!)

The Timeline:
Summer 2010: Heard God's call for adoption. Began researching in earnest

October 2010: Decided to go for it! Held fundraiser #1. Began paperwork for home study

November 2010: Discovered we were (!) pregnant. Paperwork went on-hold in order to grow and welcome our sweet baby!

May 2011: Held adoption fund raiser #2

June 2011: Welcomed our beautiful 5th son!

August 2011: Found what would become our adoption agency

February 8, 2012: Application and $100 sent to Children's Hope International

February 21, 2012: Application approved; approval paperwork began.

March 1, 2012: Approval paperwork completed and sent in with $1000. Officially in CHI's Ethiopia program! Re-started home study paperwork.

March 24, 2012: After lots of paperwork, collecting documents, being fingerprinted, and having health exams, the home study paperwork and $725 were sent in.

April 21, 2012: First home study visit completed.

April 30, 2012: Second home study visit scheduled.

May 7, 2012: We're home-study-approved!

July 6, 2012: Home study and preliminary application sent to USCIS in Dallas, TX with $890. Balance of $1725 sent in to Catholic Social Services for completion of our home study. Compiling of documents for dossier is in full-force....WHEW....lots of papers...and they all seem to cost something. $25 here, $50 there... Lord, please keep replenishing our fund!

August 1, 2012: Reported to Homeland Security for USCIS fingerprinting appointments.

August 2, 2012: Applied for Jessica's passport $135

August 3, 2012: Applied for Tony's passport $135. Please pray these come quickly so we can send in our dossier. Also please pray for God to provide $5500 because that's what we need to send WITH our dossier.

August 17, 2012: Jessica to Homeland Security for fingerprints AGAIN. Scanned and sent over all dossier docs to our agency for proofs. Waiting on passports, USCIS pre-approval and about $4,000 to be provided.

September 10, 2012: Turns out my fingerprints are "unclassifiable" (whatever that means) so we needed to send in State Police clearance for USCIS. Waiting....waiting.... but the passports are here and our agency has gone over our dossier docs. Basically we've got some snail progress going on.

October 8, 2012: We've finally got it, Folks. Our I-171-H is in our little hands. We need to make a change on our Power of Attorney for our in-country assistant, and need a re-do on a notary on a document. Waiting for someone to return to Alaska in order to have the notary re-done.

October 23, 2012: Mercy, I'll be SO happy to have this dossier completed. The last two documents are re-done, and have been sent to be checked by our agency. As soon as we get the "OK", the whole shabang will be sent to Juneau for State Certification. Oh...also found out we need to send some docs to Minnesota and Wisconsin for State Certification. Does it ever end?

November 1, 2012: Faithful God sent a family to our doorstep with a check for $1500. We pray--He hears--He makes things happen. WHAT an encouragement, and just when it was sorely needed. All our documents are en route to Juneau, AK, Madison, WI, and St. Paul, MN, respectively. Praying they all get where they need to go, get the approval needed, and return to us safely. After working on papers for 6 months, it was practically like sending a child on an airplane to send those out of my hands!

December 2012: Documents have all been State-Certified, returned to us, sent on to our agency for bundling, sent on to Washinton D.C. for final certification and authentication, AND sent on to our representative in Addis Ababa! Faithful (always) God has provided every bit of the $ dossier fee. We're officially a waiting family (#104) and waiting to be matched with our child. In the meantime, we've got the other 1/2 of our adoption expenses to raise, which includes travel, in-country expenses (translator, lawyer, etc.) and other immigration expenses. It is such a relief to be to this point. Prayer needed and appreciated. Pray for our child(ren,) our birth mother & family (who knows what they may be going through?) Thank God for funds raised, and pray for remaining funds to be raised.

July 31, 2013: We have lots of "no news" at this point. Continuing to save and raise funds. We are #72 on the "waiting families list."

October 24, 2013: We are #63 on the list. There are some significant slow-downs in some regions of the country at present, and it affects paperwork completion for children to be referred for adoption. Prayer appreciated.

September 30, 2014: We are #54 on the list. Our agency has not received any referrals in months and months. Unless a major miracle takes place, we cannot adopt from Ethiopia for several more years, which means this is fast becoming the end of this path for our adoption. We still have hopes to bring a little one or two into our family somehow. Pray with us?

January 2015: We received official word that Ethiopia is essentially closed. We will be withdrawing from CHI. Uncertain as to whether we'll be pursuing another means to adopt or not...waiting on His Word. We will continue to earmark our adoption savings for adoption until He tell us otherwise.