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Showing posts with label birth. Show all posts
Showing posts with label birth. Show all posts

Friday, August 23, 2013

Little Things

There is a little country, far, far away from our home here in the wilds of Alaska.

photo Tara Elrod                                                                    


 Like our home, it is full of beauty, and full of beautiful people.
photo Tara Elrod                                          
 It has captured our hearts ever since that day in 2010, when devastating waves rippled under its foundation, demolishing buildings, families, and lives.

Our hearts were tendered toward this little country we knew so little about, and after praying for peace, for salvation, for hope, for healing, for restoration, and for so many other things, my little boys and I tried to think of how else we could help.  We started a little project to begin giving to these unknown, yet loved people.

First project completed, and it seemed like so little, and yet we trusted in the One who can multiply the fishes--that He takes our little offerings and miraculously uses them to fill unimaginable needs.

Over two years have gone by, and Haiti has not left our hearts.  The boys bring it up every so often.  It enters my mind every so often, too.  Most recently, this happened as I prayed my heart out this past April, for acquaintances of mine.
photo Tara Elrod                                                                      
This local couple traveled to Haiti for three weeks, in order to volunteer their time and skills for Midwives for Haiti.  Essentially, this organization teaches "Haitian men and women the skills that make them skilled birth attendants."

You see, the things we take so for granted here in our country, such as sound perinatal care in clean, comfortable, safe environments, with access to advanced medical equipment if necessary, is not so easy to come by in Haiti.
photo Tara Elrod                                            
photo Tara Elrod                                           
This is not exactly where I would want to birth my baby.  And yet, women are thankful to have access to facilities such as this.  If safe, sanitary conditions are lacking, there is also a great need for trained persons who can safely, competently, and compassionately care for and aid women throughout pregnancy, birth, and postpartum.  In 2010, the World Health Organization estimated a 1 in 28 chance of dying in childbirth in Haiti.  Enter Midwives for Haiti:
photo Tara Elrod                                                                    
Our acquaintances shed blood, sweat, and tears in April as they worked to serve families and to train midwifery professionals. They realized, first-hand and daily, the extent of the need for midwifery training.  Tara writes, "There is a continuous need for professionally trained midwives to give their time and money to help precept Haitian women in midwifery skills. They need our support and for us to share our knowledge and skill. Global health is our responsibility as human beings, and right here, right now, women and babies are dying unnecessarily.
I was told that here in Haiti you learn as much as you teach, and your life is never the same.
True words."

photo Tara Elrod                                         
 The Elrod's were able assist and to share in many incredible births, with healthy outcomes.

photo Tara Elrod                                           
They were also part of many which ended in only pain.
photo Tara Elrod                                            
"I was sad that fetal death is obviously so common here that no one as much as sheds a tear about a lost baby.  That really makes me sad.  I know they could do better," says Tara.  She goes on to say, "So sad for the situation here. But with the anger and the sadness, I also know that as bad as things are here, change and improvement has been made, exponentially. I have to hang on to that and not lose sight of that. Great things have been done. We have been told that 6 years ago people came to this hospital TO DIE. There were NO midwives, and the hospital cleaning ladies would do the deliveries. There was NO hope. And now, just a few years later, midwives have been trained and hired and there are at least SOME skilled attendants. There is SO much room for improvement, so many things that could be done better. But we cannot forget that strong and permanent change comes slow. We need to remember that regardless of how horrible some things may seem, care for mothers and babies in Haiti has improved and will slowly continue to improve."

And so she plans to return next month.  Because it can be better, and there's good to be done.  There's good to be done, and we all can be a part of that, if we choose!
photo Tara Elrod                                             
This little guy is sporting a cozy li'l hat, all the way from Alaska.
photo Tara Elrod                                                                    
Many items were sent along with Elrod's in April.  The needs are great, and the items were all given out pretty much immediately.

Our family has begun a new project to assist Tara as she returns to serve in September.  We've been working on purchasing items to put together similar baby gift bags.

The day we decided to do this, 10-year-old Eaglet had a number of completed gift bags in mind that we should shoot for.  We prayed and asked God to provide.  He's doing awesome things, cuz He's just like that.

Would you like to be part of this project?  It may seem a little thing.  But our God is awesome, and He cares about little things...especially little people....  He takes our little offerings and multiplies the goodness that can be done.  Maybe you've been looking for just this type of opportunity.  Should you decide to join with us in this not-so-little, little thing, we would happily, thankfully receive any amount of donation you feel led to give.  All monies will be used to purchase items for baby gift bags, to be sent next month.  Just think--your donations would be worn by a beloved Haitian baby within the next month.  Please leave a comment, personal message me, or call us.  God will use our little offerings to send hope to Haiti.
photo Tara Elrod                                                                       

Thursday, June 16, 2011

Zachary's Story

We're a blessed family of 7, basking in the "babymoon". Here' s our littlest son's amazing birthday story... Our God is mighty in His power and perfection!


Tuesday, October 26, 2010

8 Years of Our "Force of Nature"



Eight years ago, after a hard birth with a broken clavicle and absence of breathing, I held my little "force of nature" in my arms for the first time. My Eaglet.


He came in with a bang and continues to be our little firecracker. I love his positive energy, along with so many other wonderful traits, including:

I love Eaglet's heart. He received a birthday card in the mail a few days ago with $8.00 in it. His eyes became real wide as he counted his money. A few minutes later, he came running to me with a Samaritan's Purse magazine. It was opened to a page that described how for $9.00, you can feed a hungry baby or nursing mother for a week. "That's what I want to do with my money, Mommy."

I love Eaglet's artistic bent. He spends hours per week with a pencil in his hand. His birthday request was to climb the Butte and draw.



I love Eaglet's can-do spirit. He is very decisive. When something needs to be done, he gets up and gets it done.

I love watching these gifts and talents as they unfold.... I love that about parenting all my precious little knights! Love knowing that God has good plans in store for them to use these things to His glory; they're already livin' it. What else is in store?



I love you, Eaglet. I'm so thankful that part of The Master's Plan is for you to be a part of this family of ours!


Tuesday, January 26, 2010

All in One Year

One year ago today, I was 10 days post-due, labor began, I was in denial over it, and running all over Wasilla for various appointments. Today, my toddler baby is thrilling our hearts as he pitter-patters throughout our home. His babbles and giggles bring us unfathomable joy...and we are even more in love with this baby! This week he began to walk more than crawl...and our days of being a nursing couplet are coming to a close. All this in one year. My mommy-heart is so full...of memories...of hopes...and my tears fall freely. As is the case when one's heart is so incapable of expressing feelings in words, things are best expressed with music. And so, I share our little Keiki's first birthday gift with you...a walk through his first year set to his birth music. Settle in and enjoy; it is lengthy--be sure to watch through the entire three songs!

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Worth the Wait!


Our precious 4th Little Mister is here...and of course, worth every bit of the wait and worth every ounce of effort it took to bring all 10 pounds, 1 ounce of him here! Yep. He is the new record-holder. 10 pounds, 1 ounce. 21 1/2 inches. 15 1/2 inch head and 15 1/2 inch chest. He is like a little sausage...and a very cute one at that. We love him so much and we're so happy. The birth was completely different in so many ways from what we have experienced and from what we expected. Lots of life lessons here...the biggest of which is, "I can do all things through Him who gives me strength."